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How God Moved Us Back to Rock Hill, South Carolina

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Where’s Rock Hill? The South Carolina side of Charlotte, NC. It is a charming small town, only thirty minutes from a booming metropolis.

We used to live here for a little over a year with family, when our first daughter was born. We were two weeks out of buying a house and settling down here. Then that deal fell through and we had to walk away. Turns out, God had other plans for us and told us to move to Charleston, SC. (For the third, yes third time).

Charleston was a good, growing season. We lived near family. Saw old friends. Made new friends. Probably the biggest transitions for us in this season was adding two more kids into our family and David started his career in real estate. That is a testimony to God of how someone with zero sales and marketing experience and zero real estate experience (but with the confidence that God told him to walk into it and with a determined attitude and work ethic). Out of hundreds of applicants, he was one of the few that got the job with Jeff Cook Real Estate. It was amazing to watch him (as his wife and cheerleader) to see him progress from zero to being a top producer in the company in three years. Three years. That’s favor from following what God told him to do!

We were thankful to have had that season in Charleston, but the last year and a half or so, we felt like transition was coming for our family. We could’t articulate the where or why because we couldn’t see it yet.

At first, a job opportunity with the same company opened up in the upstate of South Carolina. We really, really wanted to say “Yes!” We drove up there twice that year to drive around, pray and meet with friends who were already living up there. We had friends. We had a job opportunity waiting on us. We had a church picked out. We would be 45 minutes from the mountains and our beloved Clemson. And still we felt God saying, “No.”

So we didn’t.

Instead, we welcomed our son into the world. We did the newborn season again and were so sleep deprived and busy we couldn’t do much else. It was wonderfully hard. So we gave up the dream of living in Greenville. Just gave it up to God. At the same time, we also didn’t feel peace about putting down roots in Charleston. We were in this weird transition place.

Then David says to me one night, “That’s so weird that Greenville isn’t lining up! I don’t know what God is up to, but I want to go work for my friend (at JCRE) and get some experience from him, so that I can pitch it to the boss in a five or so years: “Hey man, I’ve got all of this managerial experience now. So can I open up a branch for you in Rock Hill?”

Fast forward a few months.

We are driving to Rock Hill for Thanksgiving 2018 and as we are pulling off of the interstate to go to David’s parent’s house, we get a phone call from Mr. Jeff Cook, himself. He says, “I’m thinking about opening up a branch in Rock Hill…and I want you to be the guy.” (something to that effect).

So he/we of course say “YES!” to that question. We didn’t have to really think about it. God blew up our plans and suddenly provided the answer. Suddenly, after three short years, David found himself in a management position. In the next few months he transferred offices to gain some experience as the assistant manager of a branch. While that was taking place, a family member in Rock Hill had an opportunity open up for us to rent their rental property. Of course, these things coincided with when Jeff was planning to launch the Rock Hill branch. This meant that we could all move together as a family.

It was such a suprise blessing to see all of the pieces quickly line up after we said “Yes!” to where our peace was. Point being: GOD WILL MAKE A WAY, even if there seems to be no way. Just keep seeking Him and He will deliver, in His time and you will be exactly where He wants you to be.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.” -Jeremiah 29:11-12 NIV-

downtown Rock Hill at sunset (taken from the former JCRE Rock Hill Office, above Amelie’s) taken by yours truly

As an update, in Summer 2023, we are still growing and thriving in beautiful Rock Hill! How can we serve your family this year?

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I Entered a Surf Contest, as a Novice, in my 30s (The Folly Beach Wahine 2017 )

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June 4, 2017

One year ago, I was sitting at our kitchen table, reading the newspaper about the results from the 2016 Wahine Classic (an all-female, local, surf contest at Folly Beach, South Carolina). Locally, it is just called “The Wahine.” I sighed and mumbled something to David, such as “Oh man, I’ll never be able to do anything like THAT.” He said, “You can do anything you want to do. Don’t let me stop you.” My sweet husband encouraged me over the next year to train and get back into surfing after two c-sections which produced the most beautiful children that I am blessed to call “mine.”

“You aren’t backing out of it. There is no way to get out of this,” David said. “Unless I’m too pregnant to even ride a surfboard in a year,” I said, kind-of-hoping. Fat chance. A year flew by, and here we are: the entry form accepted, check cashed, and a lovely message from co-director, Patti Noe. I’m in the open-novice division. My first surf contest at age 28. Whoa. That sounds intimidating, at least to me.

I went through so many emotions and a lot of anxiety in the last year, specifically about this contest. I went from: “Yay, I can’t wait!” to “What the heck am I doing?!” I kept on with a lot of self-doubt and fear: “You are too old for this.” “You are a mom and going to be out there with 7-year olds.” “Can you even pop-up anymore?” “When do you have time to train?” “You are a bad mom for leaving your kids; your family, to go spend hours swimming laps and practicing.” “What are you doing out here?” “What are you trying to prove?” “You do not belong here.”

Shut up.

This is about me conquering myself.

I was able to reconnect with some old friends and practice surfing again. It wasn’t until after I started swimming laps at the local rec pool for months that I felt as though I had any ab strength to pop up on my board. My husband was my biggest supporter in all of this. He encouraged me to go out surfing and/or swimming at 6:30am at least twice a week. He watched our children so I could practice and even brought our girls, by himself, to the event. David, I am forever grateful! Shoutout to Brittany, Kristin, and Rachel for waking up early to go with me. Thankful for my “surfing sensei”, Audra Gibson (the one and the same of Traveling Ink) for all of your tips, critiques, prayers and sunscreen.

The night before the contest, Rachel and her husband, Jon, spent the night and we were fighting off nervousness and we both got really excited when Audra brought us our welcome grab-bags and T-shirts.  (Thanks sponsors! We felt like we had won before it even started with all of the surprises in there!). The words that I kept hearing over and over in my head before the contest were: “This is going to be fun” and “rejoice.” I just needed to get out there and do it.

Saturday was a great day! The waves were small, 2 ft. and glassy/semi-glassy — meaning normal conditions for Folly Beach. I got to hang out on the beach all day before our afternoon heats, watch some great surfing, meet some amazing other wahines, take part in raffles and free food and enjoy the company of my family and friends under our tent. When it was my turn, it was so much fun to encourage the other girls in my heat and have friends standing on the shore to cheer me on. My fears subsided once I got out there and caught one wave. I honestly wasn’t thinking about how many waves I caught, I was just thinking: “wait, paddle, pop-up.” It was the fastest and yet hardest 15 minutes. I felt like I was sprinting the whole time. I wasn’t even sure of how many I caught, but I did advance to the finals the next day!

Afterwards, I couldn’t help but laugh because that was so much fun! I felt as though I had punched Fear in the face! Man, that felt good! My goal was not “to win”, but I already won because I was just being me out there. I had a goal and I went for it. I did not listen to the lies in my own head. I did my best. I did something that I never thought I was good enough to do.

I am more than a conqueror.

I am salt and light.

and among other things, I can add one more–

I am a wahine.

What is a dream or a goal that you have? What is stopping you from going for it? Get out there and DO IT! I’ll be cheering you on, every step of the way!

-Jen

P.S. Out of all of the amazing ladies out there, I met a few of the women in the “Goddess” category (50+). One woman is in her sixties and she is an amazing surfer and paddle-boarder and she said that she started surfing in her forties! You have no excuse that you “are too old to learn something new.” Several other women also told me that this was on “their bucket list, and now completed”. Way to go ladies! We totaled at 109 competitors this weekend, from various states in the Southeast, as well as one from Mexico. Such an amazing turnout and an amazing event. We will be back next year, –the whole ohana!

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It’s getting real…we’ve got shirts…and hats! Thanks to McKevlin’s and Ocean Surf Shop for sponsoring the event!

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Some of our cheering section! Much love, ladies!

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Celebration banquet with friends! Thanks support crew!

Our Christmas/New Year’s Miracle, a gift from the grandparents

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Things have been moving quickly at the Carter household as we received some amazing news just a few weeks before Christmas. It all started with the Christmas tree. We hadn’t bought one yet and my grandparents called to say that they were coming over to our house with one as a gift (one of those cute plastic ones). So they come over, we set it up, they brought lights and the angel topper that they used at their house for years, and we had a great time catching up for a few hours. Then, Pops pulls out a stack of papers and says “ok, so the real reason we came over tonight was because we want you and David to think about something. We would like to offer you (if you want it) to rent the Parkway house. It’s just sitting there, not being used, and we want you to consider renting from us. Think about it.”

We slept on it, (although God was saying “take it. it’s a great opportunity. take it!” while Pops was talking). So we did! We are only paying the taxes on the house, so we will be able to pay off some more debt and be able to save some money too! What an amazing Christmas gift that we were given!! January has been so fast, trying to pack and getting the house ready to be lived in again/cleaned, ect.

(Miracles upon miracles): The weekend before we moved, we so needed a family vacation to get away from all of the stress and the chaos. For years, we had always wanted two things to happen: 1. to go on a vacation in the mountains WHILE it’s snowing and stay in a cabin, and 2. to go on vacation with the Tetrevs. There was some definite resistance to getting both of our families ready to go on this trip (from finances, to work, to cars breaking down, to the park rangers calling us and asking if we were still crazy enough to come because of the ice and snow predictions…general life craziness) but “come hell or high water, we are going!” (as they say). We finally made it to Lake Joccassee, in Salem, SC.  We stayed 4 days/3 nights in a beautiful cabin (that we were able to book half-off with a winter promotion) and split between our 2 families. AND we got snowed in! We were the only people there and had the whole campground to ourselves…in the snow! It was so restful and peaceful just to get away and literally do nothing (if you count hiking in the snow, having snowball fights, building snowmen, and watching the snow fall while sitting on a plush couch in front of a roaring fire; “nothing”.)

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Miri’s word of the weekend: “COLD”

We came back from that trip so excited and re-energized to move! We moved into the house behind Grammy and Pops (the same house they built in 1960 where my dad and his brothers grew up) on January 29th. We seriously could not have done it without the help of my dad, uncle, brothers, Pops, and our dear friends, the Tetrevs. THANK YOU! Immediately, upon moving in, we felt such sweet peace and rest.

Did I mention that it is in “the trending” neighborhood on the island at the moment, too? Did I also mention that there are lots of families around and it’s on a quiet street where Miriam can safely play in the yard without cars going by at 50 mph? There is even a sweet playground down the street! We are a block away from the water. Also, this house is a surviving time-capsule straight out of the 1960s/1970s–plenty of character and charm all over the place (definitely not a “burger house”). Here’s the thing: by ourselves, we never could have NEVER afforded a place in this neighborhood. (oh trust me, we looked, before we moved here…and it wasn’t in the budget to rent, and buying–shoot, you must be crazy!)  But not crazy enough for God. Not crazy enough for Him to align all of this in a matter of 2 months. 2 MONTHS, people! We may never know how many circumstances that God set up to move us when and where we did on Johns Island, or how He has now moved us to James Island, but all we can say is that HE IS REALLY, REALLY GOOD!

Earlier this week we found out how to hook up the old speakers that Pops had put in the living room and wired them from the front dining room to blast some worship music to celebrate.  This house was made for worship! It is amazing to me, not only that we get to steward this opportunity for our family well, but also that before the idea of this old house came to be (back when it was an old lot of nothing in the back of Grandana Jantzen’s backyard), God had imagined it as a place of worship, a house for community. Once the moving craziness has subsided, we would love to host and have people over! We can’t wait to see how God breathes life into this old house again! It’s going to be beautiful! We are so thankful to be a part of that, for as long as God has us living here!

So that being said, when can you come over?

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In the kitchen of The Parkway House

Miriam at 18 months

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This fall we had Miriam’s first camping trip at Keowee-Toxaway State Park in Pickens. She loved the woods and hiking. Overall she did great (she got a little cold at night but slept the rest in Jen’s hammock with her).  We were able to spend some time with our dear friends, the Haldemans. We would definitely go camping again with small children! A few things we learned: 1. it is probably better to sleep together in a tent for warmth (she didn’t like being confined in a sleeping bag). Next time, we will do an air-mattress in the tent together. 2. We are very glad we came over-prepared. Meals were already prepared and frozen so all we had to do was heat them (which equals more hands to wrangle Miriam). 3. Fires scare me with a toddler who is prone to trip over her own two feet. (they should invent a child-proof ring around the fire ring), but the pack-n-play did help… All in all, go camping as a group (more hands to help with kids) and bring tons of baby-wipes and they will be fine. We loved it!

We went to my parents church for their annual Trunk-or-Treat and we took home second place as the cast from “Bob’s Burgers”.

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Miriam loves the pumpkin patch and trick-or-treating. She was a little confused we didn’t stay and go inside people’s houses but she got a good haul of candy. Her overall opinion of chocolate is “just ok. a bit overrated”, but she can down a lollipop no problem.

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She has 10 teeth and at her last check up she weighed 21.5 lbs. When we went back later this month for her check-up she immediately started crying (she knew the shots were coming…poor kid). She now weighs 23.3 lbs and is average for all of her head circumference, weight and height. She is more and more independent everyday. She can run. She says “yes, bite, beads,hungry,dirty,baby,go-go (car), yogi (yogurt), eggies (eggs), Gogee (Goldfish), wa-wa (water) along with the others she knows. Altogether she probably knows about 50 words, and can say about 35-40. This week she likes to say “cars” and “stars.” We’ve been giving her more choices (ex. for her to pick out her own clothes or between snacks) She is definitely a girly girl with clothes and usually will pick out pink socks or a shirt with her beads and pink shoes. She really likes her yellow boots (which she affectionately calls, “butts”).

She weaned this month (which Jen says she has officially graduated from baby to toddler). We have no idea if she actually understands that there is “a baby in Mommy’s belly”, but we try. She will then point to her belly, or she will go grab one of her baby dolls. She is incredibly smart and very affectionate. She will hug friends goodbye and blow kisses to most people when we leave and if we arrive she will wave and say “hey!”. We have put up pictures of family and friends on the refrigerator and she can easily recognize people.

We absolutely love our growing girl! She really is growing up way too fast!

Our Johns Island Adventure (Round 3)

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Team Carter is having a great summer so far. We moved back to Johns Island (our third time being here…but you know what they say…”third time is the charm”) and we feel settled into the house we are renting. We are enjoying getting to spend lots of time with Jen’s family and they love getting to see Miriam. The new grandparents are getting really good at spoiling their granddaughter with a wagon, a swing and a kiddie pool. What more could a 14 month old want? 

Miriam has been recently walking more. Some of her favorite words are “no”,”uh-oh”, “Oh-Ah” (Miri for “Cousin Noah”) , “yeah”, “what”, “look” ,”that” , “mama”, “dada”, “oh”, and  “wow”. She babbles a lot. If we say “Miriam, where’s your belly?” She can find it. And she will proceed to pull up your shirt to point out that you too have a belly button. She calls dogs “woo woo”. If we say “night night Miriam” she says “no night night”. She now has 7 teeth. She still loves reading books and musical toys (including an interactive purse she slings over one shoulder when we go out). She likes to make loud shouts with sounds and bend over to be upside-down. Nothing in the pantry doors is safe any longer. She’s the absolute best! 

It’s been really cool to see in this new season how things really do just line up so well and fall into your hands when you (as Danny Silk puts it) “follow your favor.” We were able to acquire a rental on this beautiful island for what was in our budget (at a time when rentals are very hard to come by/so expensive). We are surrounded by a unique “neighborhood” of very diverse people, but we all get along. We had a potluck/welcome home party the first weekend we moved and even though our neighbors and friends were meeting for the first time, it was really nice! We actually had to kick guests out after a few hours so Miriam could sleep. Excited to see relationships form with our neighbors. Also we are blessed with really nice landlords (which is a tremendous help when you are renting) and they live behind us. Small world, our landlord’s wife and I (Jen) realized that we have met before during a brief overlap of work at a fast-food restaurant, so we had that humorous commonality of “this person looks so familiar….how do I know them?”

It’s also been a amazing to see the Lord furnish (yet again) another house for us. Before we moved, family was so generous to give us the essentials we needed to get started. Then my parents (unbeknownst to us) had kept all our wedding stuff (that was 5 years ago) and brought over 3 truckloads of stuff that we had forgotten about during our past five years of moving around/abroad! Then we needed a new jogging stroller for Miriam to get around our dirt road and grassy yard/neighborhood and the Lord highlited one for us at Once Upon a Child (it wasn’t there when we came in and at some point in the 30 min. we were shopping, when we left it was on sale outside the door. And it’s orange. And better than the old one we had that broke). We also needed a sleeper sofa for guests to stay over and we found one (almost new) for next to nothing at a second-hand store! 

David has been receiving much favor at work, especially being a transfer. He has a normal schedule with more hours than he needs. Now he has off weekends which is what we prayed for! We are continuing to pay off our debt (which after “being a family” is why we are here). Sunday’s have really been a blessing for us too. We have been eating breakfast and doing life with our long-time friends, the Tetrevs. I suppose you could call it “house church” but we really just love encouraging one another and hanging out. Sometimes this looks like playing worship music or listening to a Bethel podcast and other times it looks like eating a meal and swimming in the creek. It’s a really sweet and simple time.

We are now “open” for guests at our house so please feel free to come and stay and rest on the beach when you visit us. We are 15 minutes from Kiawah beach and 30 min.from Folly. We have already hosted David’s parents and David’s sister and her family. You are next. Let’s make it happen! 

Happy 1st Birthday Miriam!

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These are late, but Miriam is 1 year old! We celebrated in style with a tea party. At her check-up she is 21 lb. 2 oz. (but grew 3 inches since her 9-month appointment). She likes to crawl and can stand-up and balance herself. She was hesitant about her birthday cupcake and in the end, prefered a cookie. But she loved her presents and she knew that everyone there was present to celebrate her (smart girl!). Mommy and Daddy love you so much Miriam! You are growing up into quite the little girl! We wrote down our predictions, blessings, and life-advice and our hopes for Miriam for when she turns 18 (in 2032!) and put them in a time-capsule envelope that she can open on 5/1/2032.

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“Tea Time!”

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“Um, is this it? Do I eat this?”

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“Ma, get it off me!”

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Playing “Pass the Parcel”

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Granny J won! (it was a tiara)

Team Carter is Moving Again!

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Can you guess where? The view from St. Michael's

Charleston, SC!

We have been so grateful to have been able to “rebuild” in this past year in Rock Hill. We have been able to grow in number and to live with David’s family. The past year has been a beautiful season for us! Long story, short: we were all set to “put down roots” here in Rock Hill. We had been house shopping and even put an offer in for the cutest 1940s bungalow. Two weeks before closing, the offer fell through and God said “not now”. (We are SO grateful for the best realtor on the block, Connie Brooks, with Century21. That woman knows her stuff. We highly recommend her!) We “mourned” that house-loss for two weeks.

Then, several confirmations through people, situations, prophetic words and dreams happened that God was planning to move us to Charleston. This will be our third time moving there! Crazy!! We feel like God given purpose for moving is to do family well and seek wisdom because there’s something there we haven’t seen yet. So we will! David is getting transferred with his job at SPATCO (a huge blessing!!) and we will be moving at the end of May. This weekend, through the connections of amazing friends in Charleston, we secured a cute house on Johns Island to rent (within our budget) for the next year! Now we are excited to watch how God furnishes it and to meet our new landlord 🙂 In the words of friends already down there, “this just feels right. There is so much peace.”

It is bittersweet to leave this Rock Hill though. This city (and including the surrounding areas of Charlotte) is (as one of our dear friends put it) “a city of refuge–a city you can run to, and be sheltered away for awhile.” That’s exactly what we’ve been doing. We are seeing the Holy Spirit send us out yet again (and not just our family, but other families as well) to be equipped for the more that is out there. It’s so encouraging!

A huge thank you to our family that has let us “do life” with them in the same house/nearby. We thank you for accepting and loving us despite our flaws in a crazy time of transition that led to a beautiful transformation of our little family. We will miss cooking with you, sharing everyday musings and people “just popping over.” But we promise to visit often and the invitation is also extended to Johns Island. (you guys just need a farm/compound to hold us all…) 😉 We really can’t express in words how much we love you and will miss y’all.

Another huge thank you to the sweet friends we have made. God put you in our lives because he knew we needed people to love on us and speak wisdom and truth into us. Thank you for your friendship and encouragement to us, although brief. The same offer above stands for you too!

We can’t believe that in a month or so that we will be “turning another page” in our wonderful life adventure that we’re on! We are ready. We will keep you posted. We will be obedient.

Y’all Come Back Now! (International Move Returning to the USA from Peru)

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Hey family and friends!

Just wanted to give you an update as to what we have been up to over the past month of returning to the States, coming home to South Carolina, taking some “us” time, preparing for Miriam’s birthday and seeing family and friends. Our traveling schedule has been quite different this time coming home (as we can’t be as mobile as we would like to be), but we see confirmations everyday that it was the best decision for our family to come back to South Carolina.

For starters, the three plane rides home were an adventure all in itself. Our flight that left from Cusco was delayed for a few hours, so they waived our extra luggage fees. We were blessed to get an amazing deal with Delta airlines with first-class tickets from Lima to Atlanta and while we can’t say that we got the full “first-class experience” (who wants dinner at 1:45am?), sleeping for 5-6 hours straight was a blessing in itself. We didn’t care that the flight from Atlanta to Charlotte was delayed and freezing cold, we were just happy to get home with all of our luggage. We were surprised at the airport by David’s dad and some sweet friends who had a gift bag for Miriam. Our first meal on American soil was Bojangles.

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An update on all things Miriam: we got to the house and David’s parents and aunts had our room set up with nursery things. It really put our mind at ease to see all the furniture and the thought they put into “our family space.” We were also blessed by our family at Faith Baptist Church (in Swansea, SC) who gave us a baby shower one weekend. Miriam got so many beautiful clothes, afghans and diapers! The state of SC is paying for Miriam’s prenatal care and giving us a free birth with a great hospital (less than 5 minutes away from the house). Our team of OBs (the ones we have met so far) are all very nice and helpful and they have all said that Miriam is doing great–totally normal and healthy. Her due date was actually a bit off than what we previously had thought, so her new date is supposed to be April 22nd. (If she doesn’t come on that date, please refrain from asking me when she’s coming…I don’t know any more than you do 🙂 God said it will be “a surprise.”) Also, thanks to living at high altitude in Cusco for awhile, the docs say my hemoglobin levels are “off the charts, amazing.” Little elevation here makes me a bit of a super-human.

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Jen at 36 weeks

David and I have felt very encouraged to see family, to spend time with them and to catch up with friends this month. We can’t express how loved we felt (and still feel) from people and their generosity. We are thankful for your phone/Skype conversations, treating us to dinner or coffee, asking us what we need for Miriam, opening your homes to let us spend quality time with you, to let us talk for hours on end in English, ect. We really appreciate everything!

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seeing old friends and old waterfalls

As far as what God has been teaching us over the past month: we need to continue to trust him. He has proven over and over again how much he loves our family and how he wants to take care of us (see examples above). He provides even though the cost of living here is more expensive than what it was in Peru. He provides the desires of our hearts. So we can trust him for our future plans. We both feel like we are on the edge of discovering something BIG with our next steps, but we are still discerning exactly what that is and what that looks like. (Becoming parents is definitely a new, very BIG, adventure in itself and we feel that God will reveal more to our family after Miriam gets here). Until he gives us a clear picture of where our family is headed next, I (Jen) am going to be a stay-at-home mommy.

How can you be praying for us over the next few weeks, you ask?

1. For a smooth and easy delivery for Jen and Miriam (and David–as he is the pillar of emotional support). Team Carter is ready to go at 38 weeks…now we wait and see.

2. A job for David: he had an interview for a job in Charlotte last week and will hear in back in the coming week.